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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 03 Oct 2025 19:04

Hopefully, this community forum is still kicking. I'm doing a semester-long English project on exploring Mandalorians as a discourse community. Does anyone have anything to say about how Mandalorian culture impacts them personally? Whether or not you think you can be, or do try to be, or cannot be, or is, or is not a real Mandalorian? How and why?
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Unread post by Vlet Hansen » 03 Oct 2025 21:56

Well, my personal view on it is that you can be, albeit with some liberties taken in definition. For the purposes of this post, I'll focus on the criteria for being a Mandalorian by itself, as opposed to the broader and more complex question of what it means to be a good Mandalorian.

The simple way to define this would be via the Resol'Nare, which has the twin advantages of being explicitly listed and broadly accepted as the criteria for membership. For the benefit of anyone reading this who isn't already familiar, we'll name and number them here as
1: education
2: armor
3: self-defense
4: the tribe/family
5: Mando'a
6: the Mandalore

1: Education, or more explicitly "raising your children as Mandalorians" is perfectly achievable in practice, though depending on the manner in which it's done it could cause friction with others in broader society. There's two sides to this action, the first being the very literal "raise your children to understand and follow the Resol'Nare" which is possible in theory, but would likely have variable results depending on how the children themselves feel about it. I would note here that nothing in this philosophy need be interpreted as forcing children to live this way, and attempts to do so would likely be counterproductive or outright harmful, but giving them access to the information and opportunity to do so should they choose would, in my view, fulfill even the more literal interpretation here. The second side of it is a much more fundamental and necessary commandment, to raise your children well and prepare them for life ahead. It's also good to note that the action relates to yourself as well as your children, learning new skills should be a lifelong activity instead of something viewed as completed by a certain arbitrary point.

2: Armor, where we need to make perhaps the most radical changes to the expectation if we expect it to serve us in reality. Again, I would separate this into two elements, that of physical ability and that of visual identity. The first element can be viewed in the broadest sense as "wear clothing that is practical for your situation" with a lean towards durability, versatility, and the ability to adapt to unexpected situations (such as a sudden emergency). This can extend beyond clothing itself to tools, and can include literal armor of various sorts, although this is often sharply restricted by social realities as well as pragmatism. No amount of theoretical justification makes a plate carrier a sensible thing to wear when painting a house or working on a car, as a random example, though it would be perfectly consistent with Mandalorian philosophy to have a plate carrier (with actual plates) available, should the need arise. The second element of visible group identity gives rise to a concept for me: presuming a state of ba'slan shev'la does not exist (which would be unlikely under the current circumstances, though that does serve as a precedent that overrides this element of the Resol'Nare), a Mandalorian should be open about being such. This doesn't require attention-seeking behavior or proselytizing, but some form of visual reference to being Mandalorian is something I would argue is expected of someone taking it as a genuine cultural matter. This iconography need not be explicit or showy, and at times it's better if it isn't (primarily to make some distinction between it and mere consumerism) but it should be distinctively Mandalorian and readily visible. As a personal solution, with few exceptions I generally wear a Kyr'bes ring and I have a Kar'ta Beskar that I wear on my belt. I've occasionally been asked what the purpose of that is, and my general explanation for people with only a very passing interest is "I'm weird about Mandalorians". I would generally refrain from explaining in more detail unless the questioner was genuinely interested, which happens only rarely. Still, being willing to discuss it openly should it be seriously inquired about is something I feel would be necessary for someone treating it as a cultural foundation.

As an aside on Beskar'gam, I take the rather controversial position that "traditional" Beskar'gam is not appropriate for a Mandalorian in practice. Something designed with a focus on fashion and a certain aesthetic style, at the expense of the true purpose to which it would notionally be put, is in truth deeply antithetical to Mandalorian philosophy. I enjoy the visual of the T-visor as much as anyone, and it does pain me to admit it, but it simply isn't the solution for someone seeking to live the Resol'Nare in full, where armor is meant to be more than a costume.

3: Self-defense can be interpreted in a number of ways, primarily in the scope of what is implied. I generally don't prefer to set a hard minimum of ability beneath which one would be disqualified, but there isn't much of a ceiling of how far this could be taken by a determined person. Fundamentally, the point of this rule is to demand that a Mandalorian be capable of responding to a crisis and helping themselves (and others). I would also broaden this, particularly with how it interacts with the next rule, to be understood more as "in an emergency, be an active and helpful agent instead of a passive or interfering liability". This demands before all else the cultivation of an ability to function under stress, and in cases with multiple people and complex responses needed, the humility to work as a team member instead of insisting on "doing your own thing" if that thing will cause difficulties in the successful response. Bringing it back to the more narrow concern of self-defense, while this does not make any explicit statements about methods or extent, I do read it as encouraging, if not to the point of a mandate, the cultivation of martial skills to include a familiarity with weapons and violence. As said previously, there's no true limit to the skill which could be acquired in this realm, and as long as said skills are not used recklessly they would be a universally positive trait within the culture.

4: The clan/tribe/family (aliit). This is a broad rule, both in scope and definition. Aliit, first, should not be understood as "nuclear family" or even extended family, not only due to Mandalorian lack of concern for bloodline. Aliit as a functional unit should really be thought of as the entire local community (ideally of Mandalorians, but regardless of how many Mandalorians are available, outsiders are often going to brush up against the edges of it in any circumstance). It should be seen as something of a blurring of boundaries between family and friends and neighbors, the network of mutual support. This is also a critical thing to understand about Mandalorian culture: for all the individual expressiveness Mandalorians are known for, Mandalorian culture in practice is strongly focused on the group. A Mandalorian should support their aliit, and when they need support in turn, their aliit should be there to support them in turn. Someone who would abandon their support network in a time of individual prosperity, or worse, someone who would act against their own aliit's wellbeing for personal gain, is unworthy of the name Mandalorian. (As an aside, based on a strict reading of the Resol'Nare, this gives rise to a joke: being a violent war criminal is fine, but you better not be a deadbeat or forget to wear your PPE.) This support can be of any and every form necessary, be it financial, physical or mental labor, defense, or even emotional support. Naturally, there is a point at which no more should be expected of someone, but at the same time there is a point at which someone should be expected to put more effort in than they currently do. Where those lines are drawn, however, are not explicit and must be determined on a case by case basis. The important part is to understand the critical value of the aliit, and that nobody should feel they need to (or should) "go it alone."

5: Mando'a. This one is in many ways related to the visible identity element of the armor, being an explicit differentiating feature between Mandalorians and any other culture which may share other similarities. In an ideal world, this would expect that every Mandalorian is fully fluent in Mando'a or working to achieve such a skill level (such as those who have only recently entered the culture) and they use it amongst themselves routinely or even exclusively. However, the reality is even the more developed dialects of Mando'a are not yet capable of providing this level of communication, nor are most people willing to commit to mastering what is already available. Efforts to expand Mando'a are ongoing, albeit across multiple different groups that do not always communicate effectively, leading to the branching dialects. In time, perhaps it would be expanded enough to serve any possible need in daily conversation, but for now it must be accepted that Mando'a cannot serve as the exclusive language for any Mandalorians. That being said, I am firm in my belief that a good faith effort to learn Mando'a is an essential element of being a Mandalorian, even if one doesn't reach full fluency. I would define this, at a bare minimum, as being familiar with the basics of the grammar and a core vocabulary of useful words, enabling at least some level of communication to occur between two Mandalorians who otherwise do not share a language. This is in comparison to a rote memorization of a smattering of stock phrases, which I consider to be insufficient for anyone who wishes to treat this as their genuine culture.

On a broader level, while the Resol'Nare make no specific claims about this, I would argue that a valuable part of being a Mandalorian from a cultural perspective is to agree with certain assumptions made by the language and common expressions within it. Notably, Mando'a is very unconcerned with complex layers of positional authority and places very little concern on subjects such as gender. The way I personally encourage people to interpret this is that you should be highly unconcerned with who or what someone is, be it their gender or their supposed authority or lack thereof, and focus more on their personal abilities and how they act in a situation. Do not recklessly defer to someone's judgement if they haven't given you a genuine reason to do so, but likewise don't refuse to listen to someone or think less of them for any preconceived notion you may have of who they are. As an example of both this and things I said when discussing aliit and self-defense, should someone be taking charge in an emergency and telling you to fill a role, pitch in and fill the role unless you have a genuinely better idea, don't quibble over whether they have the authority to do so or whether someone else should have to do the "dirty work".

6: The Mandalore. This is a tricky rule to analyze. First, the position of Mand'alor is not by default filled. In reality, nobody has yet had a genuine claim to the title, and it may well be that nobody ever will. The Mand'alor is in many ways a reaction to an external pressure, the person around which Mandalorians as a whole naturally coalesce to handle a crisis or significant task. This is highly related to the point I made in the previous section, as (in my opinion, though I doubt I'm alone in this) a true Mand'alor cannot be self-declared. Someone declaring themselves the leader of all Mandalorians should rightly be viewed with extreme suspicion, their motives treated as suspect and their hubris self-evidently out of control. Instead, a true Mand'alor would be someone taking action to organize everyone in response to some monumental event that affected Mandalorians as a whole. The job should in theory be a thankless task of crisis management and organization, as much an inter-clan diplomat as a strategist. It isn't the sort of title that should come with rewards beyond the reputational value of being seen as a good leader, it shouldn't be a permanent position, and it shouldn't be one that cannot be disagreed with. Indeed, should significant concerns be raised about the Mand'alor's decisions, the title in many ways would inherently cease to apply.

So what does this mean for the Resol'Nare? Presuming such a situation arises where a Mand'alor does arise, this is the Resol'Nare making an explicit statement: when times get tough, your aliit becomes all Mandalorians. Disputes between clans, personal grudges, differences of opinions, all should be put aside to focus on the wellbeing of the culture as a whole in extremis. This is an overt statement of what was already implied by the rules about Mando'a and Beskar'gam: while there are many aliite, and most day-to-day life of a Mandlaorian will happen on that scale, the Mandalorian culture and society remains a thing in itself, a larger family to which all Mandalorians must ultimately belong.
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Re: Mandalorian Culture and Real Life

Unread post by Augest Kayd » 04 Oct 2025 04:45

Thank you very much for your detailed personal breakdown. In that same vein, after all this, how much would you consider yourself to be a true Mandalorian, or meeting of the Resol'nare?
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Unread post by Vlet Hansen » 04 Oct 2025 06:01

Well, as far as it's applicable to me, I do my best to follow the Resol'Nare as I described them. I don't have children, so that part isn't applicable, and there isn't a Mand'alor to worry about either. If there's anything I fall short in, it would be Beskar'gam. I'm visibly Mandalorian-affiliated, but I don't stick with the absolute most pragmatic and versatile clothing at all times, though I still trend in that direction more often than not.

By my personal assessment I meet the criteria, though it's not something that's really independently verified by some strict external community given the circumstances.
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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 04 Oct 2025 09:32

How might you separate real-world Mandalorian spirituality from the idea of legitimizing it as a way of life? If that question makes sense.
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Unread post by ParjaiTracyn » 04 Oct 2025 16:43

Vlet, that is an amazing explanation of the version of Mando realism that follows the Resol'nare. Covers the concepts in nearly the same way as I have seen from many other Mando realists. I'm sure there would be quibbles, but considering that you and I have not shared any of the same Discord communities, its eerie how your wording almost echos what other people have said. I especially like your take on defense.


Augest, what kind of discourse are you looking for? What people have written about Mando realism? Or how people are having conversations about it? I can offer links to places to find each kind of discourse.

As for your most recent question... I personally don't understand what you are referring to when you say "real-world Mandalorian spirituality" or "idea of legitimizing it as a way of life." I'll take a stab at what I think you're trying to say, based on my interactions with several Mando realists. Hopefully that can give you a starting point to help me (us?) understand what kind of information you're seeking.

None of the people in the groups that I'm in consider the Mandalorian way of life to be a "religion," though I do know of (but am not in) one group that has set itself up as a kind of religion so that it could non-profit status and certain religious protections in the United States. I know that group encourages the idea that "weapons have spirits" and that they do not follow the Resol'nare. I can offer a link if you feel like delving more into it, but that's the extent of my knowledge about that group.

For everyone else that I have interacted with in a couple of Discord servers, they don't see the Resol'nare as a set of religious values. The Resol'nare wasn't created or handed down in the real world by anyone who set themselves up as a religious guru. It doesn't require any belief in a higher power; in fact, some Mando realists apply the Resol'nare to their life in addition to following an Earth-based faith tradition. People legitimize the Mandalorian way of life to themselves by living by whatever that means to them and taking gruff from no one about it. Some take it a step further and discuss how they live as a Mandalorian on Earth through public videos and blog posts.

Hopefully that can give some points for discussion.
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Unread post by Vlet Hansen » 04 Oct 2025 23:23

Augest Kayd wrote: ↑
04 Oct 2025 09:32
How might you separate real-world Mandalorian spirituality from the idea of legitimizing it as a way of life? If that question makes sense.
I admit I don't quite follow, sorry.
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Vlet, that is an amazing explanation of the version of Mando realism that follows the Resol'nare. Covers the concepts in nearly the same way as I have seen from many other Mando realists. I'm sure there would be quibbles, but considering that you and I have not shared any of the same Discord communities, its eerie how your wording almost echos what other people have said. I especially like your take on defense.


August,None of the people in the groups that I'm in consider the Mandalorian way of life to be a "religion," though I do know of (but am not in) one group that has set itself up as a kind of religion so that it could non-profit status and certain religious protections in the United States. I know that group encourages the idea that "weapons have spirits" and that they do not follow the Resol'nare. I can offer a link if you feel like delving more into it, but that's the extent of my knowledge about that group.
I know the group you're thinking of, they're certainly... an odd lot. Can't say I agreed with their approach, but that's only as good as my opinion, of course.

Separate from the Resol'Nare themselves, while I don't take the Mandalorian religion as some form of metaphysical reality, I do find the concepts it centers around to be valid and important enough that I could in a loose sense be said to be "religious" in that sense.
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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 05 Oct 2025 08:26

Parjai A discourse community is a subculture or a close community of people with six points: a shared language, a threshold of experience, a means of communication (digital, in our case, as our research is on digital subcultures), a genre of communication, the use of that communication method, and publicly accessible goals.

In short, for our purposes, just the Mandalorian community in general. I'm trying to defend the idea that a boundary like that exists explicitly, so maybe the fact that there isn't a governing body of sorts, as said by Valt, a bit of a setback for me, ha ha.



Vlet I admit that I am not too sure where I was going with this either. I think I was trying to define and divide a line between those who take it as a guideline to improve their own way of life versus those who might actually want to live a truly Mandalorian life. I guess it's a mindset thing. So, thanks to Parjai for his contribution.

It was nice talking to you again.

What group were the two of you talking about?
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Unread post by Vlet Hansen » 05 Oct 2025 18:11

I kinda feel like anyone who holds tightly enough to the ideals that they're following the Resol'Nare as a whole, to include the language, would be fairly easy to distinguish from people with interest on a lesser scale.

The other group (assuming we're thinking of the same one) styles themselves as "The Way of the Mandalore" and, at least at one point, was seeking nonprofit status. I don't know how that ended up, I wound up cutting contact with them because they had some rather perverse top-down and uncommunicative control structure going on, plus a number of other issues. I had been talking to them for only a month or so before I started having pretty significant concerns about the direction they were going. On the bright side, as far as I can tell, they now don't seem involved in anything more than posting generic "warrior" motivational quotes on social media...
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Unread post by ParjaiTracyn » 05 Oct 2025 23:34

Thank you for the clarification. I had lost track of the "community" part of the phrase in your opening post, especially with your questions after that.

I'm going to give an info dump about communities based on my experience casually researching Mandalorians in official Star Wars media and Mando realism for about four years. I avoid fan fiction when I can, though translating what is seen in official media about Mandalorians to a life philosophy will always involve unofficial interpretation and changes. I know there are communities dedicated to talking about fan fiction about Din Djarin, Jango Fett, Boba Fett, as well as communities that are into dressing up as Mandalorians (yeah, cosplay clubs), but I don't think those are what you're looking for.

Hopefully, you can find something in here worthwhile.

First of all, there is no single "Mandalorian community." People occasionally form communities for various kinds of support, but there is rarely any cross-discussion. Some of that is because of differences in ideology; some of it is because they simply don't know about each other.

There are quite likely far more people who identify as "Mandalorian" who are not actually part of any community. I was in a roleplaying game with someone who called themselves a Mandalorian. I asked what community they were in, and they said they weren't in any and that I should stick to the Republic Commando books rather than getting "misinformation" from other people.

So, you could look at specific communities, or you could start compiling a list of places where people exchange ideas about Mandalorian realism, but there isn't a central location.

For this forum, you probably already figured out that the most active times of discussion about Mandalorians as a culture were in 2017 and 2018.
https://forums.mandoa.org/viewforum.php?f=28

I've run across a few Facebook communities, and a few Tumblr accounts, but I never kept the links because conversations stopped several years ago or because they aren't for the kind of Mandalorian realism that I'm interested in.

As for Discord servers and Facebook groups where Mando realism discussion happen that I personally know about about ...

Aay'han is a Russian Mandalorian realism server. I've never been in there (I don't have an interest in learning Russian, and I don't want to rely on a translator app), so I can't speak to details about their level of discourse.

The Oyu'baat (which was originally known as "Learn Mando'a") originally started out as a place to discuss Mando'a and soon developed into a place to talk about bringing the ideas of being a Mandalorian from the Republic Commando books to life on Earth. This is one of the groups I referenced obliquely. I've been an active member of this community for a few years.

Project Shereshoy was an off-shoot of the Oyu'baat. It was an attempt to be more accepting of a greater variety of interpretations of Mando realism. The server mods for a few years had "missions" that were intended to help people think about how to live as Mandalorians better. The missions were a relative flop, and the server is now an archive. This is the other place that I referenced obliquely. I was a mod there, and I'm the caretaker of the archive as of the time of this post.

MandoCreator was originally created as support for the MandoCreator armor design app. When Project Shereshoy closed, it was offered as a place where people could hang out. Although the occasional discussion of Mando realism pops up, most Mando-related discussions revolve around character backstories and Mandalorians in fan fiction. I am active in the language part of this community, and sometimes answer culture questions.

You can find links to Aay'han, Oyu'baat, and MandoCreator in the Community tab of the MandoCreator site (along with links for some of the cosplay groups, which are *not* at all into Mando realism).

The Way of the Mandalore is the group with non-profit religious status that I mentioned. They can be found on Facebook and a host of other social media sites. Their Facebook page still seems to be active, and they had a meet-up this past year. I am not in their Discord server, so I don't know specifically what they talk about, aside from knowing that it's not centered on the Resol'nare. A few of my associates in the Oyu'baat and MandoCreator have visited their server, which is why I know a tiny bit about it.

True Mandalorians is a different group that has incorporated misogyny and certain other restrictive social views into their version of Mando realism. They still occasionally post on their Facebook page, but I've heard from associates of mine that the Discord server is dead, either because no one is interested in talking there or because they moved to a new location. I don't know, because it's not my kind of Mando realism.

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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 06 Oct 2025 09:05

Yeah, I'll probably point out something about the inherent separation between different groups of Mandalorians as a cultural thing in and of itself.

Would you two give a sort of short blurb about your expeience with this culture, just so if I cite this forum?
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Well, I don't know how to sum up my experience, really. It's been a part of my life for a long time now. My satisfaction with the philosophy has remained fairly constant, and the sense of familial duty and reliance has been a very relevant part of my life. There's always issues when dealing with people from outside the culture when the subject comes up, but that's something I've long grown accustomed to.

Interacting with other members of the culture has at times been fractious, in large part due to my own belligerence, but also due to the tendency of different groups being protective of what they view as the essential character of their "style" of being Mandalorian (whether they view it as the ONLY method or not) and becoming somewhat top-down oriented organizations. This centralized control never sat very well with me on a cultural level, even if I understand the motivations that lead people to adopt it.
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Unread post by ParjaiTracyn » 07 Oct 2025 03:24

Separation is inherent in the culture? We sort of see that in-universe, with the idea of different clans and factions in the Republic Commando books and comics, and clans, house, and factions in "The Clone Wars," "Rebels," and "The Mandalorian" television series.

On Earth, though, this separation is not done consciously. Rather, based on my observations over the last few years, those who declare themselves Mandalorians prize independence above all else, including supporting other people who are Mandalorians. To exaggerate a bit, they would rather die alone than compromise on what they see as the "right" way to live as a Mandalorian. It seems largely by coincidence that people with similar enough views ever come together.

Just like there is no single Mandalorian community, there is no single vision of Mandalorian culture. Certain groups encourage specific ideas about the culture, so those groups develop a version of the Mandalorian culture specific to that community, but that version of the culture does not spread much beyond each community's meeting place. Well, maybe with the exception of the Way of the Mandalore, because they are aggressive about posting on social media.


As for my specific experience: I didn't realize that Mandalorians had been given an in-universe culture, let alone that people had adapted it to a philosophy for surviving in the real world, until about four years ago. Since that time, I've been engaging with a few specific communities several times a week at least and became a Mandalorian after others called me that because of my contributions. Mostly, I help with answering questions that involve quoting the source material or pointing to resources that exist in the servers, though I've made my own public contributions to codifying aspects of a certain version of the culture and providing the occasional thought exercise for fellow server members.

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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 07 Oct 2025 15:39

Vlet Hansen wrote: ↑
06 Oct 2025 17:50
Well, I don't know how to sum up my experience, really. It's been a part of my life for a long time now. My satisfaction with the philosophy has remained fairly constant, and the sense of familial duty and reliance has been a very relevant part of my life. There's always issues when dealing with people from outside the culture when the subject comes up, but that's something I've long grown accustomed to.

Interacting with other members of the culture has at times been fractious, in large part due to my own belligerence, but also due to the tendency of different groups being protective of what they view as the essential character of their "style" of being Mandalorian (whether they view it as the ONLY method or not) and becoming somewhat top-down oriented organizations. This centralized control never sat very well with me on a cultural level, even if I understand the motivations that lead people to adopt it.
Well, sort of like a short introduction that I might be able to pull from. Alias, time spent in the community, allotted experience, and how people might generally view you from within the community, et cetera. For example, personally, I would consider you a mentor, or even my mentor for this community.

As a follow-up question, do you, or would you say you have your own particular, perhaps, personal form of Mandalorian-ism? given that there are communities that you clearly take a stance against? You implied pretty well in your initial post, but if there was anything concrete, "in a statement" types you could give.
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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 07 Oct 2025 15:52

ParjaiTracyn wrote: ↑
07 Oct 2025 03:24
Separation is inherent in the culture? We sort of see that in-universe, with the idea of different clans and factions in the Republic Commando books and comics, and clans, house, and factions in "The Clone Wars," "Rebels," and "The Mandalorian" television series.
Yeah, I felt there was a very big emphasis on compartmentalization and competition, but also when it comes to the amount of splinter factions and civil wars.
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On Earth, though, this separation is not done consciously. Rather, based on my observations over the last few years, those who declare themselves Mandalorians prize independence above all else, including supporting other people who are Mandalorians. To exaggerate a bit, they would rather die alone than compromise on what they see as the "right" way to live as a Mandalorian. It seems largely by coincidence that people with similar enough views ever come together.
Seems like it gets right into the heart of the philosophy.
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07 Oct 2025 03:24
Just like there is no single Mandalorian community, there is no single vision of Mandalorian culture. Certain groups encourage specific ideas about the culture, so those groups develop a version of the Mandalorian culture specific to that community, but that version of the culture does not spread much beyond each community's meeting place. Well, maybe with the exception of the Way of the Mandalore, because they are aggressive about posting on social media.
So many we're missing that intergroup link. Between forums. Between clans. Maybe we should push for something like that between different groups of those who actually want to live a Mandalorian way of life. Seperation, compartmentalization, individualism, but those mean nothing without the whole, right? What do you think?

Could you also direct me to this group? All I can find is the actual Way of the Mandalore.
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07 Oct 2025 03:24
As for my specific experience: I didn't realize that Mandalorians had been given an in-universe culture, let alone that people had adapted it to a philosophy for surviving in the real world, until about four years ago. Since that time, I've been engaging with a few specific communities several times a week at least and became a Mandalorian after others called me that because of my contributions. Mostly, I help with answering questions that involve quoting the source material or pointing to resources that exist in the servers, though I've made my own public contributions to codifying aspects of a certain version of the culture and providing the occasional thought exercise for fellow server members.
So would you say you are a scholar of Mandalorian culture or someone who would consider themselves a real Mandalorian? Either way, it seems you've been recognized by others as Mandalorians. I will make a point about the importance of that.
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Re: Mandalorian Culture and Real Life

Unread post by Augest Kayd » 07 Oct 2025 15:54

This whole individualism thing does put a little bit of a kink in me clearly defining this as a discourse community for the sake of my essay, though, but oh well.

Do either of you have a comprehensive list of active communities, though?
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Unread post by ParjaiTracyn » 07 Oct 2025 16:25

Augest Kayd wrote: ↑
07 Oct 2025 15:54
Do either of you have a comprehensive list of active communities, though?
I'm at work, so while I have thoughts about your most recent post, I don't have time to provide a thoughtful answer.

However, this is a quick one. I personally don't have a "comprehensive" list. I don't know how many active communities are out there, but I did give a few of the big ones that I know about.
https://forums.mandoa.org/viewtopic.php ... e416#p3369

Links to Aay'han, Oyu'baat, and MandoCreator: https://mandocreator.com/community/
Way of the Mandalore social media links on Linktree (which is found in a pinned post on the Facebook page): https://linktr.ee/mandalorianfaith
You can find True Mandalorians on Facebook, but I don't like them at all, so I'm not doing the legwork for that one.

I know of many other Mando-themed hangout servers, fan-fiction servers, and costume clubs, some of which I might be able to find invites to, but they have nothing to do with living as a Mandalorian on Earth. Rather, they are united in their interest in Mandalorians as fictional characters.

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Unread post by Augest Kayd » 07 Oct 2025 16:51

ParjaiTracyn wrote: ↑
07 Oct 2025 16:25
I'm at work, so while I have thoughts about your most recent post, I don't have time to provide a thoughtful answer.
No problem. Thank you for taking the time to post a quick answer. Looking forward to what you can provide later.
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07 Oct 2025 16:25
You can find True Mandalorians on Facebook, but I don't like them at all, so I'm not doing the legwork for that one.
Thank you for the other links.

You really seem to have some thoughts about these True Mandalorians. It seems there are a bunch of those taking the name on Facebook. I'll take a deeper look if I ever feel like referencing them at all.
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07 Oct 2025 16:25
I know of many other Mando-themed hangout servers, fan-fiction servers, and costume clubs, some of which I might be able to find invites to, but they have nothing to do with living as a Mandalorian on Earth. Rather, they are united in their interest in Mandalorians as fictional characters.
Maybe there should be one specifically for the culture and not just the community. A Discord seems like a great holonet substitute for that.
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Re: Mandalorian Culture and Real Life

Unread post by Vlet Hansen » 07 Oct 2025 18:53

Augest Kayd wrote: ↑
07 Oct 2025 15:39
Well, sort of like a short introduction that I might be able to pull from. Alias, time spent in the community, allotted experience, and how people might generally view you from within the community, et cetera. For example, personally, I would consider you a mentor, or even my mentor for this community.

As a follow-up question, do you, or would you say you have your own particular, perhaps, personal form of Mandalorian-ism? given that there are communities that you clearly take a stance against? You implied pretty well in your initial post, but if there was anything concrete, "in a statement" types you could give.
Well, I've been posting as Vlet Hansen since the beginning. I first became interested in the culture around 2005 with the Republic Commando series, and the first community I was involved in regarding Mandalorians was the forums at https://forum.clonecommandos.net which I joined back in 2008. I was active there for as long as the forum itself was active, and I still check it to this day out of rote loyalty, but it's long since been silent. I still keep up with a number of friends I made there, albeit none of us are nearly as close as we were back in the day.

I joined this forum back in 2012 and was reasonably active for much of the period since, though I was far from being the most useful or active member here. Notably, I provided some feedback to Tal'jair's dictionary and the Mandalorian timekeeping system discussion. People generally have a positive opinion of me, it seems, though I think more of that is due to length of time I've been doing this rather than the amount of contribution I've really made. There's lots of people from here who put significantly more effort into the language, making entire classes or works of art in it.

I was in the Oyu'baat server for a fairly long while, I don't know the exact dates. I left sometime around 2020 or 2021 due to a rather unimportant disagreement with the admins there. I've been considering rejoining sometime soon, it was a decent place overall. I've been in the tangentially related MC discord for a month or so now, and I've gotten back into helping actively expand the language on their dialect.

I was briefly involved with the WoM group, but that soured quickly. They were internally advocating use of Cuun Joha as a Mando'a source, and had no actual teaching to speak of going on. Since I was already more familiar with the language than anyone else there, I volunteered to run a study group, and I also put together a case for why Cuun Joha was an inaccurate and unreliable source for the language. This was, in their view, overstepping my boundaries because it was taking decisions out of the control of the admin staff, which lead to a rather sharp break between us. Additionally, all their doctrinal heresies aside, the admins there claimed that the people in charge of the movement were external to the server for some sort of legal liability reason, and refused to discuss who they were, but suggested that they had the final say with anything relating to the movement. The only good thing I can say about them is they seem to be relatively harmless, in the sense that they aren't really going anywhere with their ideals.

Regarding my personal stance on being Mandalorian, I would say the part that's most unique to me (though I do think there's others who have similar ideas) is the stance that aesthetics and a veneer of Mandalorian ideals isn't sufficient, and in many cases is an outright detriment to actually being a Mandalorian. It's too common for people to focus on getting a look right at the expense of anything concrete. Think less about looking like a badass or fitting a costuming club's requirements, and more about who you really are, what you can actually do, and what you're doing with that for the sake of your people.
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Re: Mandalorian Culture and Real Life

Unread post by ParjaiTracyn » 07 Oct 2025 23:44

Augest Kayd wrote: ↑
07 Oct 2025 16:51
Maybe there should be one specifically for the culture and not just the community. A Discord seems like a great holonet substitute for that.
Unfortunately, it's been 30 years since my last cultural anthropology, so I'm not hip to all the current technical lingo in that field.

Do you want a server to talk about the culture of the various kinds of in-universe Mandalorians? Or do you want to a place to discuss how to adapt what's seen in the official material to become a real-world way of living?

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